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My Boyfriend Keeps Telling Me to Trust Him.

Guys have had a proverb that goes back to the beginning of time. “Tell a girl what she wants to hear and you have what you want to have.” Guys know that saying the right words like, “I love you,” “You are the only one I have ever really cared for,” or “You’re the most beautiful girl in the whole world,” can get a girl’s emotions going crazy. You hear those words and get attacked by a severe case of the “fuzzy-wuzzies.” Then while you’re vulnerable, he makes his moves.

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If your boyfriend is constantly having to convince you that he is trustworthy, chances are he isn’t. Be careful of dropping your guard even for a moment, regardless of what someone says. What’s most important is how he acts, not what he says. When it comes to trust, actions speak much louder than words.

Taken from The Teenage Q&A Book, pg. 74